What are you good at?
We all have areas where we excel. The body of Christ is one that is blessed with all different sorts gifts to share with one another. In 1 Corinthians 11:1 Paul tells the saints to imitate or follow him.
For a long time it seemed to me to be an unbiblical request; follow a mere man? But there is actually some merit to imitating others. Let me give you a few examples:
- Imitate kind, patient women if you are prone to impatience and yelling
- Imitate good cooks if you feel unskilled in that area
- Imitate punctual families if you’re always late
- Imitate organized women if you constantly live among lost items
- Imitate efficient homemakers if you find yourself frazzled often
Let me add a disclaimer and say that imitation and following others has it limits. Without the LORD and His grace in your life, without abiding in Him and walking in the Spirit, following others is only a temporary “fix” if it’s a character quality rather than a learned skill.
Let’s look at that cooking example above again and take it one step further. Say you can cook a decent meal. Spaghetti, salad and french bread is no trouble for you. You can bake and frost a birthday cake with ease. Making a hearty stew doesn’t intimidate you and you’re not too afraid of trying even a few “advanced” recipes. A new friend at church though isn’t so gifted. We’ll call her Julia.
She’s No Julia Childs
Julia is actually kind of afraid of cooking. She knows how to boil water but anything past frozen or boxed meals and she is deep into uncharted waters. She really feels at a loss here and could use some instruction, some guidance and a whole lot of encouragement. You know you could help her but you don’t want to be pushy or presumptuous.
On the other hand, and unbeknownst to you, Julia would love for you to offer to share what you know! She probably isn’t going to announce her failings in the kitchen and assumes people who do cook well probably have better things to do than teach her.
Now let’s give this story a happy ending: you have a casual conversation with Julia after church one day and since you’ve heard her make a few jokes about her cooking, you know it’s an area of struggle for her. You also know you could really help get her on her feet as the cook in her family. So you mention it to her.
Even though she may hesitate, she’s instantly hopeful inside. She also may be a little doubtful and unsure of whether you can really help her. But, since we’re giving this story a happy ending, Julia happily accepts your offer.
You chat a little more about it, make some arrangements as to when you’ll get together, decide on a few recipes and let her know where she can find the needed ingredients.
How the Story Ends
You share the some of the knowledge you’ve accumulated over the past 20 years and it brings you joy. Julia learns some basic cooking techniques and tips, and gains the confidence she needs to venture out and try some recipes on her own. She learns that we all burn dinner at some time or another. She also learns that even the best family cooks serve frozen pizza now and then.
You leave feeling content and fulfilled that you could be an encouragement to her and she is left feeling encouraged. It’s 100% a win win situation.
My Question for You
Are there any Julia’s in your life? Remember that first question I asked in this post, what are you good at? Are there any Julia’s in your life in relation to what you’re good at? You probably already know what my answer to that question would be… it’s everything I write here and create products for. It’s helping Christian homemakers learn the ropes, fine-tune and excel.
Next question: What is your Julia story? We are all Julia in some aspect of life. You have a few areas that you want to improve but you just don’t know where to start. For me, I’m Julia in the areas of hospitality and healthy eating. I so want to thrive in the area of hospitality, and I am improving by making conscious efforts to offer beverages to guests, etc, but it’s been a long road that I’m still walking. And healthy eating? If someone could only take me by the hand there, I would be ever so grateful!
And truth be told, I’m also Julia with marketing (not really homemaking related, unless you include home businesses in with homemaking). I am confident about the resources I’ve created but find myself holding back when it’s time to market said resources. I would gladly hire someone for that position!
So, I really do want to hear about what you’re good at and what you desire to be good at. (I started a Facebook discussion about it on Friday night HERE) I’ll cheer you on in the areas where you’re thriving and I’ll offer encouragement in areas where you feel like Julia.
And…if your Julia story is #5 in those examples above… I’m your girl. I can help you with how you view homemaking and how you spend your time (the Homemaking Course), and I can teach some you homemaking basics and encourage you as a homemaker (the Homemaking DVDs), for about the same amount that you’d spend on the ingredients necessary to learn a few new recipes.
I want to give you a taste of the homemaking course because of the feedback I’ve gotten, so just click the banner below to get one free lesson. And, this is kind of important… whether or not you accept my offer… find the help you need for your Julia areas of life and find a Julia near you. I know you have one, it could even be your own children.
Weary not in well doing dear one…